October 2007

First Impressions are the Last Impressions: Part I

It is human nature to instantly form an impression of someone the moment we meet them. Subconsciously, the mind makes an assessment in five seconds, and then within 90 seconds, it forms the lasting impression that usually cannot be reverted.

Self-inspection check points

For this reason, it is very important to conduct the 30-second detail check from head to toe before you enter a room or meeting. Check for food in your teeth, and ensure that your hair looks neat and combined. For a woman, evaluate your makeup and position your jewelry. Secure your scarf or straighten your tie. Check for stains, loose buttons, and open flies.

Winning that first impression with a smile

Now, as soon as you meet someone, the impression clock starts ticking, and you only have 90 seconds to connect with that person. What is the single, most important thing you can do? According to F.X. Muldoon, EYE CONTACT and a SMILE is what will make or break your first impression. Show your genuineness with eye contact, and use your smile to win over any person.

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